“…looking carefully lest anyone
fall short of the grace of God,
lest any root of bitterness springing up
cause trouble, and by this many become defiled…”
Hebrews 12:15

I used to think this was referring to how bitterness defiles the person bearing it, and of course it does. But it’s more than that. The very air around a person carrying bitterness is defiled when the bitter person speaks out, contaminating the atmosphere around him and defiling the listeners by his bitterness.

When a bitter person levels hateful words against a believer, the only remedy is to run to the Throne of God for help. God will surely help a hurting son or daughter coming to him stung with the fiery darts of a bitter person.

Above all, do not nurture the sting by dwelling on it, by obsessing over it, no, take it to the Lord who will provide the grace needed, and who alone can give the peace that passes understanding.

Always remember – our battle is not against flesh and blood (Ephesians 6:12). Recognize these things as attacks from your malicious enemy, Satan, who delights in those who obsess over hurtful words or unfair dealings. Recognize the hatefulness as coming from Satan, not the person he is using against you. Don’t give him the satisfaction. Humble yourself before the Lord and seek his comforting and his grace to overcome.

Pray with me:

Father, hateful words leveled against me just hurt so much. I cannot in myself let it go and turn to you, I’m just too angry. I come to you for help, for the grace only you can give. Please take my burden and fill me with your peace, the peace that goes beyond understanding.